What is Love ?

What is love? Ua ite te mau taata atoa i te reira tatararaa taa ê o te here. Some people think that being with someone is love and for some unable to live without someone is love for. Te vai ra te tahi mau taata e paraparau nei ia ratou e te mo'e ê nei ratou e te ere nei ratou i te here, e no te tahi mau taata e aupuru nei i te hoê taata, e here ïa.
Love is not an imperative of life; it is not mandatory that everyone must experience love, or that one cannot live without it. Tera râ,, love is often viewed as one of the most basic elements in human life because of the powerful impact it has on our emotions, relationships and general well-being.

Here are a few reasons why people tend to value love in their lives:

1. Emotional fulfillment: Love results to emotional satisfaction and fulfilment. It creates feelings of connection, belongingness, and happiness.
2. Relationships: Love builds and maintains different types of relationships like romantic ones or family bonds between members. Strong healthy relationships are usually built on a foundation of love, trust, and mutual respect for each other.
3. Human Connection: Love fosters human connection and empathy with others. It lets us recognize and connect with others at a deeper level which leads to compassion and understanding.
4. Growth and development: Love facilitates personal growth and development. By challenging us to be vulnerable, emphatic and understanding in turn we get greater self-awareness as well as emotional maturity.
5. Hereditary Benefits :For instance , experiencing love has been known to have immense health benefits such as reduced stress levels , better mental health conditions among others resulting into enhanced immune system functioning.

Tera râ,, it’s not all about loving somebody for pleasure in life.

Te tatararaa mau no te here

Te ti'araa mau râ, e ere teie mau mea atoa i te here. Mai te mea e, e farii outou i te mana'o o te “Te mau nota” ia ite ana'e outou i te hoê taata no te taime matamua e e hinaaro outou ia riro ei taata nehenehe e te maitai. Ahiri e aita e hi'oraa maitai, eita ïa outou e tâu'a i te reira. Ia imi ana'e tatou i te hoê taata no to ratou hoho'a mata , e ere i te here. E ohipa no te hoê noa taime poto. E nehenehe outou e umehia i te mau huru taata atoa o te ore e haamata i te here i te mau huru taata atoa. E hinaaro anei outou ?

Oia mau, eita outou e haamata i te rave i te here, aita e titauhia ia oe ia rave i te reira. Ua haamata teie mana'o i te tupu i roto ia outou. Aita outou e au ia haamata ana'e outou i te faahepo i te hoê taata ia haere mai i pihai iho ia outou aore ra ia haru noa ' tu outou ia ratou. Te haapa'o noa nei outou ia outou iho i teie taime. No te mea te mana'ona'o noa ra outou ia outou eiaha no ni'a i te mau mana'o o taua taata ra.

Eaha mau na te here ?

No reira, eaha mau na te here? attraction? Aita, Attachment ? Aita e rave'a e ore ai te here e. Ia farii ana'e outou i te hoê taata o ta outou e mana'o ra e ua hope roa, aita oe e mana'o nei e, e taata ê atu teie taata. E tuhaa te reira na oe, ta oe i ite i te pae hopea. Te ite ra outou i to outou hoho'a i roto i taua taata ra. Te here o te mana'o mâ roa a'e ïa i roto i te taata o te haamata i te faaite i te here, i te ti'araa mau râ, aita to te reira e tatararaa e ere i te mea faufaa. e tupu te reira i ni'a ia outou na mua roa, e i muri iho, e tupu i ni'a i te tahi atu taata tei riro ei tuhaa no to outou varua. E haamata outou i te ora rahi atu â i te mau mahana atoa.

Te hinaaro ia riro mai teie te huru, e ere ïa i te here, wanting their happiness is love, Te iteraa i te vai-papû-raa o te here ïa no ratou, Te hinaaroraa ia manuïa ratou i roto i te oraraa nei o te here ïa. to outou hopearaa mai te mea e, tei piha'i iho te hopea ia outou e aore râ, aita.

E nafea ia tapea i to oe here ?

E faatura outou ia ratou e e farii outou i to ratou huru. E paturu outou ia ratou noa'tu e, aita e ti'a ia outou ia paturu ia ratou, e oaoa outou. Ia ite ana'e outou ia ratou i te tupuraa i te rahi i roto i te mau faito teitei apî. E hinaaro tatou i te here no te hoê taime poto e na roto i te horo'araa i te reira,e faaite tatou i te here. Ua riro te reira ei parau ta te taata e hinaaro noa ra e faarue i taua vahi ra i reira te hoê taata e paraparau ai no nia i te here e e parau mau te reira no te mea te faaruru nei te taata i te mau tupuraa ino mau i roto i te here e te mau taairaa i teie mahana . People have learned to play with the feelings now a days and sometimes destiny plays with the love birds, tera râ, teie te oraraa ta te taata e haere na ni'a i to tatou e'a e e haapii mai ia tatou i te hoê mea e aore râ, i te tahi atu. E horo'a ratou i te mau haamana'oraa au e te au maitai e e faaru'e ratou i te hoê taime o te oraraa . Te mea noa e ti'a ia outou ia rave o te oreraa ïa e hahi ê atu i to outou e'a noa'tu eaha ta outou fâ o te faatumu-noa-raa ïa i ni'a i te tapaeraa i te reira, noa'tu eaha te mea ta outou e hinaaro i te rave faaoti. Eiaha e faarahi roa i te parau no te here,e mana'o au mau te reira e te hinaaro mau ia farii oe i to oe here mau i te hoê mahana.

Love has a deep influence in shaping our emotions, te mau auraa, and general wellbeing. And the following are some of the ways love can affect us:

1.Emotional Well-being

Love makes life very joyful and fulfilling; it gives happiness beyond measure. The feeling of being loved and to love someone so intensely leads to emotional safety, attachment and contentedness. It is invigorating and uplifting, influencing mood positively and giving people’s lives direction.

2. Relationships

Love serves as a basis for strong relationships that are meaningful. All healthy relationships be they romantic ones or between family members or friendship are founded on mutual liking, trustworthiness and respect among other things. By promoting intimacy, empathy as well as outward connection love helps in strengthening connections with others thereby enabling individuals to have deeper understanding and appreciation for one another”.

3.Self-esteem

Self-esteem and the feeling of being loved and appreciated by others are related. When we experience love from others, it helps confirm our sense of selfhood and worthiness thus increasing our confidence and self-assurance. Moreover, self-love is important for general well-being and resilience.

4.Health Benefits

A lot of physical and mental health benefits can be associated with love. According to a research study, individuals who are in loving relationships tend to have lower levels of stress, anxiety and depression compared to those who do not have strong relationships. They also exhibit better cardiovascular health, immune function as well as longevity overall. These health benefits are due to emotional support and companionship through loving relationships.

5. Personal Growth

Love is known for nurturing personal growth at all times even when an individual’s relationship status changes. In relationships though, overcoming obstacles with love, empathy or compassion could make us stronger, more empathetic people who communicate better. Love emphasizes our need to become vulnerable beings that are open-hearted enough to learn from experiences that enlarge their spirits.

Life Satisfaction

The feeling of satisfaction in life is improved by love; this is the same with well-being. We are more satisfied with our lives when we are bonded to others through love and have other types of deep connections with them. Love makes us feel that we belong or attach to something more important than our individual selves thus significantly improving the quality of our lives.

7.Altruism and Compassion

Love promotes kindness, compassion and selflessness needed for altruism. It is easier for a loving person to be kind or show empathy towards those around him thereby contributing to a society in which people act compassionately toward one another.

In general, love shapes how we experience things and relate with others as well as our level of wellness profoundly. Love nurtured in ourselves or among people brings about happiness, fulfillment and meaning.